Showing posts with label Self-Help. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-Help. Show all posts

Friday, September 10, 2010

Living Well: Making a Difference

Andy Anderson
In Living Well...Making a Difference, author Andy Andersen makes a bold mark on modern thought. His philosophy is breathtakingly simple and wonderfully awe-inspired. His goal, which stems from his vast experience as a career Navy man, community leader, husband and father, is to coach readers in doing for others before they do for themselves. It is mankind’s grace that will positively impact one another’s lives and, in turn, our own.

In twenty-two succinct and life-changing chapters, with titles such as “Money and Materialism,” “What Can I do?,” and “Random Acts of Kindness,” Andy weaves lessons about patriotism, prejudice, forgiveness, and decency with affable humor that will lead to self reflection. These illuminating vignettes can be read as separate pieces of non-fiction and should be considered a naval aviator’s checklist for life. A serviceman’s call to servant hood, these inspirational missives shoot from the hip and celebrate a life of duty — our service to others; it is what makes the world go round.

My Take:

I absolutely loved this book!  It is absolutely full of hilarious advice that is both honest and practical.  I didn';t necessarily learn a ton from this book, because I don't really have a problem with spending more than I make and I am pretty responsible with my money.  But I think the advice given in this book would be indispensable for others.  The author gives some great advice on a number of topics such as living within one's means, money and materialism, listening and communicating, simplicity, forgiveness, positive relationships, and patriotism.  Some of his advice is what I call "facepalm" advice.  Something that seems so obvious that when one hears it, they put their face in their palm and shake their head.  Things like not buying a car that you can't afford, not buying a house with unnecessary upgrades that double the cost of the house you already can't afford, not building up credit card debt that equals your yearly salary.  Things that even kids know you shouldn't do, yet people keep on doing it!!!  The book has a great sense of humor about it, here is one of my favorite quotes, this one came from a section dealing with relationships:
The Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) reported on an experiment in which 276 people were voluntarily injected with cold viruses.  The people who were generally happy and were in healthy relationships were 4 times better at fighting colds.  Evidently, meaner people truly are 'snottier' people.
 The author really knows what he is talking about, he's been on the lecture circuit forever, but he doesn't take himself too seriously.  He cracks a lot of jokes to ease away from the heavy topics discussed in the book.  I think this is a great read for someone who just needs to hear some good advice on how to live well, hence the title of the book, Living Well.   I almost gave this book a top rating, but the pacing was a little off, so it gets a 2, Borders with a Coupon.

Do you agree with my review?  Do you think I'm totally off base?  Either way I'd love to hear from you, be sure to leave a comment and tell me how you feel!






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Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Looking Like You: A Step-By-Step Guide for Medical Hair Replacement

Barry Hendrickson

"Barry Hendrickson and his staff are like guardian angels." 

-New York Times

"I myself and top NYC stylists refer our clients to Barry Hendrickson for superior service, and the ultimate in quality and style."  

-Edward Tricomi of Warren & Tricomi Salon



My Take:

Looking Like You is a wonderful resource for any woman that is about to embark upon the journey through chemotherapy.  The book discusses the realities of what will happen to your hair during the chemo process in a positive and constructive way.  The visual styling of the book is bright and fun.  The author understands women in this position need something uplifting and happy.  Many of the pages are devoted to great pictures of wig styles, showing how awesome a properly styled wig can look.  Looking Like You is also chalk full of practical advice about choosing a wig, caring for the wig, and keeping yourself healthy.  The author, Barry Hendrickson, is one of the top wig stylists in the world.  He is highly recommended by top stylist, Edward Tricomi (whom you may know as the stylist who does the makeovers on America's Next Top Model) and is sought after by the heavy hitters of the entertainment business.  Basically, this guy knows what he is talking about.  He offers great advice gleaned from actually caring about, and listening to his clients over many years.  If you find yourself in a situation where you would benefit from a book on medical hair replacement, this book is top notch.  I rate this book a 1, Pay Full Price.  

Do you agree with my review?  Do you think I'm totally off base?  Either way I'd love to hear from you, be sure to leave a comment and tell me how you feel!

This book is appropriate for all ages.


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Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Giving You the Wow and the How

Sharmen Lane
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Giving You the Wow and the How is written by a woman who has been where you might be right now.  Sharmen Lane not only shares her story of success and how to achieve great things, because she has personally done it, but also she gives you the simple tools to do it yourself and shows you how to use them.  If you want to change your life, if you want to go from now to wow, Sharmen Lane will show you the how.  She personally went from being a high school dropout manicurist, to a millionaire and college graduate by using the tools, tips and strategies she shares with you in this step by step inspirational book.  Sharmen Lane gives you the wow and the how, starting right now!


My Take: 

Giving You the Wow and the How is one of the more entertaining Self Help books I've read.  The themes and ideas discussed in the book are very much the same as other books of the same genre.  Find out what you love to do, knock out negativity, write down your goals, etc.  What sets this book apart, however, is the readability of the book.  The author is a good story teller, and accompanies all of her tips with applicable and interesting stories from her own life experience.  She has a lot of passion for the message she is trying to convey, and you can definitely see her passion come through the book.  This is a great book for people who have found themselves in a rut and just need a little motivation.  This book is filled with practical exorcises that help bolster a person's drive.  One of the qualities I most enjoyed, was how unpretentious the author was.  So many Self Help authors are painfully uppity that I can't bear to read their books.  Sharmen Lane is just regular woman who worked hard and found a way to achieve success, she isn't looking to spout off about how great she is for all of her accomplishments.  If you aren't a Self Help fan, this book probably won't convert you, but if you are looking for something to kick your behind and get you moving, this is one to check out!  As far as Self Help books go, this is one of the better ones, and as such I am giving it a rating of 2, Borders with a Coupon

Do you agree with my review?  Do you think I'm totally off base?  Either way I'd love to hear from you, be sure to leave a comment and tell me how you feel!

This book is acceptable for all audiences

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Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Adult Children of Divorce: Confused Love Seekers

Geraldine K. Piorkowski

Making wise partner choices--finding and keeping romantic love--is not magic, nor is the storybook love the stuff of real life.  Romantic love is often an elusive, fragile, and tenuous state, difficult to maintain across years.  The rates of divorce, re-divorce, relationship violence, and abuse today attest to the fact that Americans are failing at romantic love.  For teenaged and adult children of divorce, romantic love is especially elusive.  Because they have no road map of a satisfying, stable romantic relationship derived from their own parents, they are confused about what love is and tend to make poor partner choices.  Borrowing heavily from popular culture for the unrealistic standards regarding love, they become disillusioned when their all-too-ordinary lovers don't measure up.  Especially vulnerable to the problems their parents had, they tend to overreact in a similarly negative fashion and are all too ready to consider divorce when unhappiness strikes.  In trying to halt intergenerational transmission of divorce, psychologist Piorkowski points out how American popular culture presents an over sexualized, explosive, and superficial version of romantic love that can't last.  With this book, adult children of divorce can begin to recognize how they have been affected by familial experiences and develop a new, realistic map to provide directions for more fulfilling and enduring romantic relationships.

**This was difficult book for me to review, as I am not an adult child of divorce, my parents have been happily married for 35 years.  In order to gain a better perspective on the book, I had a dear friend of mine, and also an adult child of divorce, write a guest review.  The review of this book will include both of our perspectives***

My Take: 

I had a tough time with this book.  The author has obviously devoted a lot of time and research on this topic, and I think some of her insights are quite valid, however, some of her core beliefs, I question.  For example I think she significantly over demonized fairy tale romance, almost as if she is saying that a romantic relationship to have any romance or magic at all is totally and completely unrealistic.  Again, I was lucky to have a great example of what marriage should be, and I think this is why my opinion on the book just doesn't cut it because I am not the intended audience whatsoever.  With this in mind, let's hear from a person who is the intended audience, my friend, Jessie...

Jessie's Take:
Dr. Piorkowski addresses this book to the adult children of divorce as a way to shed light on why they have a difficult time finding a satisfying love relationship. However, in reading the text, this book should have been written for all men and women seeking such a relationship. She spends several sections of the book addressing “romantic love,” which she often uses interchangeably with “love.” However, as she also clearly states, these two terms are very different. She addresses the problem adult children of divorce have with looking at love as it is in the movies, overly romanticized and unrealistic. I feel that this is a problem that all of society has, not just a problem that adult children of divorce have. Her biggest problem in her book is that all of her arguments for adult children of divorce being unable to find a satisfying love are arguments that could easily refer to the rest of the world, even those with happily married parents. In fact, some could argue that those with divorced parents could choose a life partner easier and with more satisfaction that one with happily married parents because they know and have observed how love and marriage is a fragile thing and without work it can fall apart. Those with married parents have only seen it work and possibly take that connection for granted and not realize how much work their parents put into their marriage to continue to make it last. One factor I wish Dr. Piorkowski would have addressed in all of her statistics and theories is how different it is for these adult children of divorce to find a satisfying love when abstaining from having sex until after marriage. Do they find their partner and marriage to be more fulfilling than those who did not wait? I think that is a major factor that should have been addressed, especially with the amount of time she spent writing about lack of intimacy. Another issue that I had was that the entire contents of the book was summarized by chapter in the introduction, making it difficult for one to want to continue to read the rest of the book. Overall, Dr. Piorkowski’s Adult Children of Divorce: Confused Love Seekers is a very intelligently written book (possibly more so than the average person would like) but her research seems a little contradictory and is obviously skewed to address her topic.  After reading this book, I would rate it a 4, Borrow from a Friend

Do you agree with my review?  Do you think I am totally off base?  Either way I'd love to hear from you, be sure to leave a comment and tell me how you feel!

Rated PG-13 more for the fact of who the intended audience is rather than actual content



***FTC Disclosure:  This book was provided by the author in exchange for a fair review, no other compensation was given, all opinions are my own (and in this case Jessie's own too)***

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Wednesday, June 30, 2010

How to Help Parents and Kids Get Over the Fear of Math


Saundra Carter
In my family, I am the brains behind English, History, and Writing.  My hubby is the brains behind math, science and computers.  I always figured he'd be the one helping our kids with their math homework when the time came, and I'd help them with their essays.  Well, after reading this book, I'm still totally intimidated by math, but I feel like with the help of this book, I'll be more able to muddle through and help the kids.  Its broken down into useful sections such as Time Saving Techniques, Areas that Give Math Students the Most Difficulty, and also Careers in Mathematics.  I found this last section to be really great.  She goes into detail about jobs such as Actuary, Statistician, Economist, Geoscientist, and Surveyor.  As you can see from my blog, I'm a books and words kind of person, so you'd probably have to pay me triple to work any of those jobs, but I showed my nephew those pages (he LOVES math) and he was really interested and really excited to see the opportunities in pursuing math.  I also let my sister, who is a former elementary school teacher, current homeschooling SAHM, borrow the book to get a good look at it.  As a former teacher and mom of kids the age appropriate for the book (my daughter is 3, we don't need the book for her quite yet :)  I was anxious to get her opinion.   She and her home school group have found it to be a great book to have on hand in class to help students get through tough spots. Coming up with the right rating for this book was tough, I found this book to be a really great resource, and if is something you think you'd be able to use, then 1, Pay Full Price. However, if you are just fine in math and don't need the additional help, 5, Don't Even Bother. 

Do you agree with my review?  Do you think I'm totally off base?  Either way I'd love to hear from you, be sure to leave a comment and tell me how you feel!

This book is rated G for all audiences







Now a few words with the author, Saundra Carter:

The Book Buff: When and why did you begin writing?

Saundra Carter: After tutoring young people in math for more than 15 years, I noticed that many of my students forgot their math lessons over summer break or after long absences. Writing the book provided a permanent record of our sessions together that they carry with them to college and in life to help their own children with math.

TBB: What was the hardest part of writing How to Help Parents and Kids Get Over the Fear of Math?

SC: The most difficult part of writing the book was knowing when to finish. There are so many more math concepts that cause young people to struggle.  I did not want to re-write a text book, but an inspirational, educational, and entertaining book for parents and their children.

TBB: Is this book inspired by events in your own life?

SC: By sharing my own struggles with math as  a youth, I can let people know that they can move from fear to ferocity in math.

TBB: Is there a specific message in your book that you want readers to grasp?

SC: There is nothing to fear about math, but fear itself.

If you are interested in learning more about Saundra Carter, or her books and upcoming projects, check out the following link: http://www.math1on1.net


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